Bug #72843	out of source builds changes source dir for clusterj and ndbinfo_sql

For clusterj, CMake files are changed so that manifest.mf files,
pom.xml files, and mvn_install_ndbjtie.sh are created in build dir
instead of source dir.

ndbinfo.sql are configured as output to build dir instead of
source dir.  The file are already created in build dir.