Run include-what-you-use limited to adding <netdb.h>, <crtdbg.h>, "my_sharedlib.h",
"my_shm_defaults.h", "my_table_map.h" and then re-sorting the #includes (and
nothing else); then remove all of these from my_global.h.

This exposed that we were doing ABI checking on psi_abi_data_lock_* headers,
which are C++ and thus not meant to be ABI checked in C mode. Thus, they have
been taken out.

Change-Id: I6806853fc60a9eff179c2405ba5cad63ddab19e7