SERVICE NAME ON WINDOWS

Problem:
During creation of "WL9809 - RESTART command" the bug was introduced.
Starting the child process creates a separate instance of mysqld.exe and
the first instance does the setup for Windows Service. The setup was not
transfered to the child instance, thus creating the situation where the
child process does not even know it is running as a service, and will
skip everything related to the service code.

This caused the parameters in the my.ini and my.cnf files to be ignored,
when starting as a service. Only the default service names
(mysqld, mysql_cluster, server, mysqld-8.0) could load different
parameters from the my.ini file

Solution:
The patch makes the monitor process transfer all the arguments given from
the command line, to the child process. It also makes the child process detect
if its parent process is a Windows Service.