Problem:
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Objects whose synchronization failed during auto sync were tracked
via what was previously called a 'blacklist'. This information is
exposed to users via the ndb_sync_excluded_objects performance
schema table. The usage of blacklist and the negative connotation
it carries in such scenarios is a problem.

Fix:
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Replaced all references to the term 'blacklist' and its variants
in variables, function names, comments, etc with 'excluded objects'
and its variants.

The only user visible change is that the 'Ndb_metadata_blacklist_size'
status variable is now 'Ndb_metadata_excluded_count'.

Change-Id: Ib40a55c09d3241daea4864df74e333b35ea9b6a6